I was walking in front of them and they were walking behind me. I was on the way to class, and I’m not very bold, otherwise I might have said something. It made me so angry and sad at the same time. What kind of human has the audacity to think that they have the right to call another human an ACTUAL guy, making the gay guys NOT actual guys??? Humans are humans, people. Although sometimes I wish I was an actual girl.
Nah. It’s no big deal that you didn’t say something. That kind of situation shows that they’re bigoted and closed minded when it comes to sexuality, so chances are they’ll fuck up and someone will call them on their shit. No one has the right to say that one person is less of anything than another person based solely on one, trivial fact like sexuality. Not to mention, their opinion on what an “actual” guy, or “actual” anything has no standing in “actual” society. So, they can get fucked.
By the way, I’m not going to lie, if it had been me, I would have walked up to them and been like “Oh, so I’m not an actual girl? I think not, you’re not an actual anything if you can’t accept other people’s identities. You’re not even ACTUAL scum on the bottom of my shoe.”
I wonder if the person that even made this list was thinking about the fact that half of those things are that way because of the NON-privilege we have as women? I also don’t think the writer of this list realizes that some of these things are backasswards.
I could take analytical approach to this, but I’m not smart enough, to. I just hope that someone that’s more intelligent and well versed in this than I am can take it and explain the way I’m thinking of it in a better way than I can.
Keep in mind that I’m not denying that women do have certain privileges that men don’t, but I think that the whole point of feminism is to tear down those privileges that we have, that men don’t. (i.e. emotional privilege)
But yeah… Feminist bloggers that may or may not follow me, or check the feminism tag, please check this out, and tell me if I’m wrong in feeling like this list is a little messed up.
another tumblr user:wow um who are you to say whether or not apples are delicious?? that's totally subjective you should've said "*I* think apples are delicious" and even then fuck you how do you think that makes oranges and pears feel? there are all types of different fruit and they're all delicious in their own way and don't need to be judged by assholes like you
v LOL I fucking love Dollywood. My bestfriend & I were both there the same day once & went to the museum of Dolly-ness together & after every song title or reference we saw there we would break out into the song, & all the random strangers joined us. It was like GLEE shit, but less gay… Or actually half the strangers were gay so equally gay. But still fucking awesome.
“Do you know if Jolene or Joshua is working tonight?”
“Why did you come here looking like that? Is that your uniform?”
“Is there anywhere I can buy yellow roses?”
“My burger, it’s all wrong but it’s alright”
“Are the toilets two doors down”
“Is the park long to be travelling through?”
“I am just teasing you But you know I love you. Well see ya and remember that I-ee-i will always loovvee yoouuu!”
Actually, the employees there pretty much love it when you make references to stuff like that. Well.. Most of them. Some of them are grumpy butts, but half of them will love you for actually knowing something about Dolly.
You scored 64 Heterosexuality, 32 Homosexuality, and 16 Asexuality!
You are either straight or bisexual (with an interest in the opposite gender) with a moderate to high sex drive.
yeh sounds about right.
You scored 42 Heterosexuality, 28 Homosexuality, and 75 Asexuality!
You are moderately interested in sex to asexual, but do not appear to be interested in either gender.
The higher your score in asexuality, the less interested in you are in sex.
sounds about right??
You scored 60 Heterosexuality, 34 Homosexuality, and 8 Asexuality!
Wooo, I’m apparently really sexual!
You scored 31 Heterosexuality, 30 Homosexuality, and 45 Asexuality!
You scored 67 Heterosexuality, 30 Homosexuality, and 35 Asexuality!
more straight than i thought… does it mean anything that i was thinking about a fictional and also non-human character for half of those questions??
You scored 51 Heterosexuality, 72 Homosexuality, and 12 Asexuality!
You are bisexual (with no preference for either gender) with a moderate to high sex drive.A higher asexuality score means that you place a bigger emphasis on the emotional aspects of a relationship and less on the physical.
14 Heterosexuality, 92 Homosexuality, 34 Asexuality. Homosexual with a moderate sex drive. Not that I’m surprised (it was a very two dimensional test) but it’s pretty spot on.
You scored 36 Heterosexuality, 66 Homosexuality, and 33 Asexuality!
Works for me.
HAHA YOU AREN’T AS GAY AS ME, GOD MIC I BEAT YOU AT EVERYTHING
At least I’m not a fat lonely virgin sitting at his computer screen. :3c Get fucked nerd. <3~
God I’m too busy being in the floor laughing to think of something witty
This test is incredibly erasing, and quite closed minded. What I want to know, is how in the holy FUCK I scored higher in heterosexuality (64) than in homosexuality (53), and anything in asexuality (20). Because I answered all questions pertaining to gender the exact same way, yet for some reason, my heterosexuality score was higher? Not to mention that there was no inclusion of general queerness by gender, or the fact that there are more than two genders, which is irritating enough on it’s own. But then, according to the description on the end, you’re asexual if you put more emphasis on emotions in relationships than sex. I don’t think that’s how asexuality works (in general, not for all people of course).
I should have known to just ignore this little thing, because it would be erasing as fuck, and annoying. But… Whatever.
Pansexuality and hetroromanticism don’t fit me anymore.
My identity is now a faerie jellybean.
Because I say so.
fuq da polees
Edit: I really hope no one gets offended by this. I’m just finding my sexuality lately to be a little on the confusing side because I’m marrying a boy, I’ve only ever dated boys (seriously dated, anyway…) and I still think girls (and every other gender under the sun) are really sexy and stuff, but I have no romantic desire to be with a girl (or any other gender under the sun), but that could be because I’m so romantically wrapped up in my awesome Daddy-bear. Therefore, I’ve decided that instead of saying that I’m pansexual and heteroromantic to people, I’d rather just say that I’m a faerie jellybean, because people will think it’s funny (I hope) and it’s a lot easier than getting intrusive questions about my personal life and sexy-times.
ALSO: POLYAMEROUS PERSON IN A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH NO DESIRE TO BE WITH OTHER PEOPLE WHAT?