if you think misogyny isn’t an issue in supernatural, we need to sit down and have a talk
if you think misogyny isn’t an issue in supernatural, we need to sit down and have a talk
So if you’re one of those people who just happen to think you’ve only been with the 30% of women who can, let me tell you something:
You’re wrong.
Women’s bodies aren’t these terrible, mysterious things.
There is a button called the clitoris, and if you play with it enough, good things will happen.
Women, you are not abnormal if you can’t achieve orgasm through penetration alone. You are not abnormal. You are not abnormal. You are not abnormal.
Sex in tv and movies and porn almost always always always get it wrong.
*I acknowledge that not all those who identify as women have vaginae or clitorises.
THIS.
Come at me, brah. lifegettingbetter.tumblr.com
I agree… But not for the same reasons.
Mostly because I feel like I’m intruding on special mommy-baby bonding time when I see people breastfeeding in public. I don’t think it’s gross, or not modest or anything.
It’s just like… Every time I see a woman breast feeding in public, I want to shield my eyes from her, not because I don’t want to see, or don’t like breasts, or find it offensive or anything… But, I just… I feel like it’s not my place to be there during that time. Usually only when it’s really young infants. And I feel the same way about bottle feeding. I just… IT’S SUPER SPECIAL MOMMY-BABY QUIET TIME. I SHOULD NOT BE THERE FOR THAT.
I understand that most mothers that breastfeed in public are like “Hold on, gotta feed my kid…. brb.” But, I don’t see it like that.
Allow me to clarify some.
“I’m going to pay for our date because I’m the one that asked you out,” is being polite.
“I’m going to pay for our date because I’m the man and men always pay for their women,” is sexism.
Most people just won’t admit it because it isn’t hurtful somehow.
Mhmmmm
How does a man cat-calling at a woman mean he’s treating her like meat, saying her body isn’t hers, that men are so desperate they can’t control themselves, or that it’s a punishment for being a woman?
Just because it’s her body does NOT under any circumstances mean he is trying to take ownership of her by letting her know he finds her attractive in any way, even cat-calling. I mean, come on girls… Is it really so HORRIBLY wrong if a man sees a woman he thinks is attractive and voices it to her?
I mean, yeah… There are several ways of telling a woman you find her attractive without cat-calling at her. But, still. Just because you don’t want to be with that sort of man doesn’t mean you have to be a bitch. It doesn’t mean you have to go off and throw yourself at him, nor does it mean that you’re obligated to do anything sexual with him.
You know what cat-calling means? It means that man saw you, thought through his head “Wow, she is really pretty/sexy/beautiful/fit/attractive,” and he voiced that. It also means that biologically, he finds you attractive because you have good genes and he would, again biologically, feel a desire to have children with you. Unless he said “HEY HOT BITCH, WHY DON’T YOU GET OVER HERE AND SUCK MY COCK LIKE A GOOD GIRL,” or something along those lines, it’s not the end of the world.
Cat-calling is not “punishment” for being an attractive woman.
Take it as a compliment and get off your feminist high horse.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I don’t have a problem with moderate feminism. Feeling proud of being a woman is a wonderful thing. But, don’t go overreacting and be all “I’M NOT A PIECE OF MEAT, WAHHH.”
Either be offended, or be flattered, depending on how he cat-called at you, and move on.
I’m probably going to get flack for this, but I don’t even care.
/unpopular opinion.
